#1 Myth

“I should have everything figured out by 30.”

REALITY: Clarity often comes after experimentation. Life paths are rarely linear, especially in your 20s and 30s.

#2 MYTH

“If I’m anxious or lost, I must be doing something wrong.”

REALITY: Discomfort can actually be a sign you’re doing something right. It can mean you’re growing beyond your current situation and not regressing.

#3 MYTH

“Everyone else is ahead of me.”

REALITY: Comparison distorts perspective. Most people are navigating uncertainty privately, you just may not know about it. You’re not behind, you’re human.

#4 MYTH

“My job should give me purpose and passion every day.”

REALITY: It’s OK if your job is a stepping stone, and not the perfect match. You may have evolved past your current job, and that’s normal.

#5 MYTH

“If I just try harder, I won’t feel burned out.”

REALITY: Burnout isn’t about effort, it’s often a sign of chronic misalignment or unmet needs, not laziness or weakness.

#6 MYTH

“Therapy is only for crises.”

REALITY: Therapy is a proactive tool for growth, reflection, and making values-based decisions. It doesn’t need to be a last resort.